What’s the secret to creating a great talk? Follow the grandma rule, remember to ‘stick and click’ and don’t hesitate to repeat your top messages.
I made a mistake last month, (ok, probably more than one), but one that I want to talk about here. I gave a talk at a local company about my new book that kinda bombed. Ouch.
Now that a few weeks have passed, I can look back with a little perspective and I know what I did wrong and sadly, it’s a mistake I’ve made before. I tried to give my audience the equivalent of a PhD on my topic. In an hour.
You can see why it didn’t work out so well. I should know better.
Why did it happen that way? Perhaps I got a little nervous because I knew that there were going to be several scientists in the room who already had a PhD. Perhaps I got wrapped up in the experts’ dilemma — knowing so much about a topic you can’t teach others what you know. Perhaps it was the fear that someone might question whether I’m even an expert in my topic at all — even though, of course, I am.
It was probably a combination of all of those. But what counts now is if I can step back and start over. If I can go back and revamp my talk completely so it doesn’t happen again. If I can focus on finding the core essence of my message so I can share that.
Not every story and every slide and every nuance and every detail.
Having an audience is a gift and I never want to take that gift for granted. When I can remember that I am there in service to that audience and not in service to selling books or showing how much of an expert I am or sharing every single thing I know, then I will gain their ear…as well as their hearts and minds.
I am on a mission to create more thought leaders in the world – more people who are willing to step out and claim their expertise and join the broader conversation. More people who see themselves as change makers and are empowered to make that change happen. I can’t do that if no one is listening.
Next time you are preparing to be in front of an audience, here are a few things to think about:
5 Tips to a Better Talk
* Less and Less is So Much More: What are the core elements and core takeaways from this talk? Can you write them on an index card? If not, perhaps it’s time to rethink, distill, hone, reframe and refocus to give people the key elements that will inspire.
* Stick and Click: Are there one or two easy-to-remember phrases or concepts in your talk that will help your ideas stick and click?
* Tell Your Truth: I call this the Brene Brown rule – the value of vulnerability. It’s not about publicly hanging out all your dirty laundry but are you showing up as your authentic self?
* Repetition is Not a Bad Word: You may think you’ve already said it before, but just because you’ve repeated it doesn’t mean others heard or remembered it. That takes repetition.
* Follow The Grandma Rule: Would someone (like your grandmother) who knows nothing about your topic be able to follow what you’re saying? If not, how can you ‘uncomplexify‘ what you’re talking about?
Want a really difficult challenge that may help you break through?
Prepare an Ignite version of your talk: 5 minutes, 20 slides and the slides advance automatically every 15 seconds. The discipline of that format will give you great practice for creating a top notch talk.